Apart from the well known hazards of alcohol there sure are a few perks of being tipsy. Here are a few doodles expressing the upsides of being drunk! 😉
I have an eye
A subtle and kind vision
I see through the window
And create my own stories
The gestures- they vary.
But never are they faltered,
It’s an unfair game called – Perception
Calling for chaos and havoc
Because the strengths are yet to be known
And the weak might be what we worship.
No written rules, No guidelines to abide
Yet the world is the jury-
What decisions are to be made?
No one knows
Yet unfailingly they declare the putrid.
-Artwork by Aakriti Thakur
-Poem by Ruchi Bhardwaj
Sometime back I was wondering what my playlist has to say about me. This dilemma finally made its way out of my head when I came across the song ‘Walkashame’ by Meghan Trainor whilst I was biting my nails over an embarrassing incident. It’s a song I used to listen in my late teens after being an imprudent child who now needed to make sure that no matter what her daddy is going to look at her the same way. As I lip synced the lyrics the guilt seemed to descend to a path trodden by none- not even by the darkest memories with a snooze button. This sudden realization accompanied by huge amount of relief urged me to go through my old playlists. Barely a music person but I was shocked to see the variety of artists in the list. As the song ‘Up and up’ by Coldplay started playing my face had a calm smile and singing along with Chris Martin’s voice and visualizing the creative video instilled some hope in me. Exactly the same reaction every single time! The song ‘Anna Sun’ by Walk the moon tempts me to be at that house falling apart and never return. Oh! the teenage love I had for Katy Perry now seems to be a weird phase but worshiping her back then brought a friend and me together. Every time I listen to her songs I end up in nostalgia. The entire album ‘Some Nights’ by Fun had its artistic as well as realistic quirks that made it a mandatory on my playlist back then. ‘Seasons’ by Olly Murs was added when I was caught fidgeting and I needed another chance. I started listening to James Blunt when life was mundane and I longed for the years behind me(can’t make it sound more juvenile). The song ‘Gypsy’ was heard on repeat on a trip when I was learning that everybody is a wanderer on the inside. The song ‘Rude’ by Magic was an influence from people listening to it in college. ‘Comatose’ belongs to the time when I had long talks with an EDM lover friend. His persona suits EDM well but me choosing those songs is probably an old habit of showing care by sharing music. The songs by Lorde are extremely relatable and empowering. Her song ‘Royals’ felt like she just said everything I was thinking about. George Ezra’s young face and mature voice is probably the most melodious irony I am aware of. ‘The Script’ is probably a band that is never going off my playlist. I remember listening to them and wondering how can every line leave such an impact. The recently added album ‘Cleopatra’ by Lumineers is the most beautiful ballad to me so far; may be because I admire the story as well as the protagonist behind those songs. ‘Happier’ by Ed Sheeran acknowledges a silly yet secret desire. The list is endless. I might cringe when I listen to this music yet I fail to delete these songs. May be it is hard to give up on some songs because now they are a part of me or simply a reminder of an event in past. The list will keep on adding new songs but the old ones are now imprinted on me.
Courage. Only a few are able to muster enough of it to put forward their thoughts and desires. RARE- the exact number of people who are brave enough to live their life the way they perceive it. While walking in the streets you’ll come across many aesthetes but none who choose art as a form of reality. Lili Elbe was one such exception. She chose to kill the man he/she was- Einar to be the woman she wanted to be. Probably considered schizophrenic in those days Lili had the fortitude to explore and then stick to her sexual orientation. Oh no! Lili wasn’t gay. She was a ‘she’. Nature made a mistake. Science messed up the chromosomes. Talking of science, it comes with abundant exceptions. We the humans are intersections of science and art, therefore we are supposed to be a little more empathetic and understanding. Sympathy is not needed, empathy is all people wish for.
Einar was a renowned artist who was appreciated worldwide. He had ambitions and success. Lili on the other side had ambitions and a heart along with Einar’s wife Gerda, who loved Einar so much that she let him go and who was liberal enough to support Lili to be the woman of her own dreams. A suspected homosexual, Gerda did not have a career as glorious as that of Einar until she showcased her painting flaunting a woman with the haunting almond shaped eyes as her subject. The woman was Einar dressed in an unusual and unacceptable manner. Strangely, he fell in love with the stockings, the camisole, the corset, the heels and every other bit of it. He further explored what a woman thinks, how she walks, the way she chatters and the way she spreads an aura of elegance. From that point onwards Einar decided to be Lili. The repercussions, both social and medical were hostile. But, Lili had made a choice. Her choice was not ordinary. It had infinite constraints. She was a wreck and her choice was chaotic. Yet! I admire her because we are the choices we make and let it be that way. It’s alright if we want to be whoever or whatever. All we need to do is take a stand of our own and also of people with dwindling trust in their own selves. Just push your boundaries. May be your story won’t be as interesting as Lili’s, but your life is your artwork. Paint it with the colors you choose!
Ever been on the verge of crying?
Yet held back ’cause of a scrofulous friend- denial.
The thoughts that’ll be forever damned- ribald, solicitous and vile
Hard to admit – I, being a lingering curse.
Fear the modest; Escape the shy
Reciting my moral-less fable I walk past the adverse.
Oh the magic potion! The wicked witches’ alcohol
Dripping in my body drop by drop
It cuts my heart open
And burns his soul
A mystery of giving in; slowly losing control
I start to talk; Pick up till I babble
I speak my mind- the bold and all the dirty talks
I lose my innocence to him
Now unafraid of harbouring the innocent sins.
Erupting volcano- emotions just not right
I wait for no one to keep an eye
That is when I bitch ‘n’ whine ‘n’ cry
And commit every devious crime.
Yes, now a woman with every thought absurd
I catch up with his every word,
Finally a glimpse of our world’s intersection…
I wake up the next morning
Blind to his new love
Oh! The last night? It wasn’t me!
It was like giving alcohol a tongue and a pair of lips.
I pretend to be calm in the ocean of tremors
I pretend to smile listening to the rumors
Trapped in my own colours and countless hues
I pretend as if I don’t know the real you
I keep away from probing-
Scared my fears shall be affirmed and true
Aware of the apprehensive depths
Alas! the shallows I fear.
Dread it when shallows are deep
And depths no more obscure.
I have nothing to hide; No need to conceal
Yet I pretend to leave behind an aura of mystique.
Drenched in my own thoughts, soaked with imagination
I pretend not to think the queer.
I know it all- Pretend to be a wandering soul
I pretend to stay in one place
When my world had traversed the entire universe.
I pretend to stay quiet
Listening to my own silence when it makes the never ending creaks
And it hums a little song amidst the bleak
My heart filled with music; A tune ever repeating
The same rhythm just different lyrics
I pretend to stay still not dancing to my own epiphany
I pretend, pretend and pretend- a game that never ends
Not to merge, not to camouflage- but an urge to never blend.